Fire wants to share
Earth wants to involve
Earth wants to involve
Wood wants to tell
Metal wants to observe
Metal wants to observe
Water wants to make
sure
The above is my present take on the elements as I perceive
them at the moment. Over the years I
have defined the elements for myself in many different ways, and will no doubt
continue to add to my definitions in the years ahead. Whilst discussing the point III (Bl) 47, Ambition Room, I remember JR Worsley saying
: “Everybody must have an
ambition for each day. It doesn’t matter if
what you believe you want for today changes when tomorrow comes."
I like to apply this to the definitions of the elements which I come up with
from time to time. The list above therefore
represents my thoughts today. It won’t
matter if I change my mind tomorrow, for there are as many ways of describing
the elements as there are people in this world.
Is not each human being a unique manifestation of their qualities?
As acupuncturists we use as our principal instrument of
diagnosis, not Western medicine’s array of physical equipment, but the much
less tangible, much more mysterious quality which we call qi energy. And in direct
contrast to Western diagnostic methods, which try to remove the subjective from
their procedures, we are actively encouraged to take note of how we are
reacting in the presence of our patients. We train ourselves to observe how the
energy network within us created by our unique combination of elements responds
to that of those coming to us for treatment.
We therefore have to be aware of the actions of the different elements
not only within our patients, but also, and perhaps more
importantly, within ourselves.
I say more importantly, because as I have written on many
occasions, until we understand the balance of our own elements, and in
particular the role which our Guardian Element plays in our interactions with
others, we will be unable truly to understand how we may be affecting these
interactions, and how this may unconsciously be distorting our relationships
with our patients. My take on the
elements shown in this list is therefore inevitably shaped by my own Guardian
Element, Inner Fire, and anybody reading this should accept this as a given. They may then find it useful to use this list
to draw up their own definitions of the elements based on their own element.
So on to Fire. For
me, sharing everything that is mine is more important than keeping things for
myself. I learnt this long ago when a friend
told me that she thought “silence is golden”, whereas, for me “speech is golden”. The need to communicate with those I come
into contact with, either through the written or the spoken word, is as
essential to me as breathing. I need to
share my thoughts in words, as I am doing in my writing here, or in my teaching. I need to smile at people I meet in the
street, smiles and laughter being just another form of the sharing that
nourishes my soul.
For Earth, on the other hand, I feel a different need
dominates, that of drawing others into its orbit, reflecting the centrifugal
force which Earth people exert upon all who surround them. I remember seeing this most clearly many
years ago when asked by the predominantly Earth group of my fellow acupuncture
students to take part in what they called a “group hug” to celebrate our
graduation. Hugging is something which
seems to me to be such a very Earth-like activity, for when you hug you enclose
the other person within the circle of your arms. And this image of Earth trying always to be
at the centre of a circle is also there in its speech. I see
it as wanting to draw others into whatever it says, often circling several
times around a subject in an attempt to make sure that the listener has really
understood what they are trying to say.
When we move on to Wood, I feel that it is much more
concerned with getting its point across, irrespective of who the listener is. I have an image in my mind of Wood talking
with a raised finger pointing at me to emphasize what it is saying, with a kind
of commanding gesture. This is why I
describe it as liking to tell the world what is going on, not asking it, or
sharing it. It tells what it wants others
to hear, so that it can order things as it thinks they should be ordered, and
thereby stay in control.
I experience Metal as expressing itself in an almost
dramatically opposite way to Wood. Instead of Wood's emphatic speech, it gives itself time to ponder, to
think things through, and then will speak quite quietly, but at the same time firmly.
It stands back and observes, casting a watchful eye on what is around it. Its speech is very measured, and it speaks
only when it judges it right to do so.
Unlike other elements, it will be quite at ease with silence as it gives
itself time to assess what is going on, often critically and dispassionately.
Finally, I come to Water, which somewhere deep within itself
always harbours the fear that things may come to an end. It worries that the link which it is there to
establish between the end of one cycle and the start of the next might
eventually break, despite all its efforts, forcing life to come to a halt. It constantly needs the reassurance necessary
to still its fears.
These are just some of my current thoughts on the different
qualities of the elements. Others
reading this will have quite different opinions which will be just as valid for
them as these are for me, provided that they are tested out in all our
encounters with others. By the time I
draw up some future list of my take on the elements, no doubt my understanding
will have deepened, and this future list may differ quite markedly from the
present one. As JR said, the important
thing is that we should be flexible enough to allow space and time for
tomorrow’s thoughts to build on those of today.
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